Your success in life depends on the relationship you build
“You will be the same person in five years except for the people you meet and the books you read” (Charles Jones)
Do you know that about 85% of your success and happiness in family life as well as your personal life are going to be determined by the quality of the relationships that you develop in your journey to success? The more people you know and the more people who know you in a very positive way, the more successful you will be and the faster you will move a head in life and in your relationship. Connecting with the right people should be a must for you this year.
At every turning point in your life, someone is standing there to either help you or prevent you from moving faster towards the achievement of your goal. The fact is that successful people make a habit of building and maintaining a network of high quality relationships throughout their lives and as a result they accomplish greatly more that the person who goes home and watches television all night.
Whether you admit it or not everything involves relationship. So, this is the reasons why you need to get around the right people to move faster in life.
- RELATIONSHIP WITH THE RIGHT PEOPLE SPEED UP YOUR SUCCESS
Virtually, all of your amazing successes in life will be accompanied to a large extent with your relationship with good people who help you and whom you help in return. Research studies have shown that more than 90% of your success will be determined by your “reference group” Your reference group is explained as the people with whom you habitually identify and pass the time. Surprisingly, you are like a chameleon in that you take on the attitudes, behaviors, values, and belief system of the people with whom you chose to associate all the time. If you want to be a successful person, choose to associate with people who are positive in everything they do.
Associate with people who are optimistic and excited who have goals and are moving forward in their lives in achieving those goals. In addition, get far away from people who are negative in their thinking, very critical about people and complaining people.
It’s now clear that if you really want to fly with the eagles, you can’t scratch with the turkeys but get around the right people.
- RELATIONSHIP WITH THE RIGHT FAMILY ENHANCES YOUR OWN FAMILY LIFE
Even self-made millionaires network continually, how much more you, a beginner. Join your community associate and get to network with rich families. Attend their meetings and get involve in the group activities. Be bold to introduce yourself and tell them what you are about to do in the coming weeks. Get a business card and tell them what your small business will engage in. Don’t underrate yourself in such meetings. Your confidence will pave way for you.
You must definitely have a goal in mind going into such meetings and you may be surprised how happy someone will be prepared to partner you to start your business with zero percent of your own money. This is where they say preparation meet opportunity, which the ordinary man will call luck.
If you are successful the whole family will equally be successful and the family would be proud of you especially your kids. Be a go giver. The more you give of yourself without necessarily expecting something in return, the more return you find in an unexpected way. What do have to help your mentors so that they would be open to helping you in return? Remember, you first sow and you reap later.
- RELATIONSHIP WITH THE RIGHT PEOPLE SERVRES AS INSPIRATION WHEN THE GOING GET TOUGH
Identify the right people in your life and get in touch with them when you need one direction or the other about how to navigate about your goal. Take them as your mentors and be free to discuss your pressing issue with regards to your goals. Most mentors are happy to offer advice and guidance when they are contacted.
Successful people have gone through it all, failures and successes-so they are better placed to offer you the advice you need. Seek information from the right source and you would be 50% a head than someone who want to be a loner in the market place of knowledge and wisdom.
- RELATINSHIP WITH THE RIGHT PEOPLE WILL MOTIVATE YOU TO READ BOOKS, LISTEN TO AUDIOS AND ATTEND SEMINARS
You can’t meet all the gurus in your chosen field but you can read their books, listen to their recorded CDs or attend their seminars if it is possible for you to do so. I have few people I admire and shortlisted as my mentors. I read a lot of their books. Just to mention but a few: Brain Tracy, T. Harv, Bob Proctor, etc.
In fact, these self-made millionaires are inspiration not only to me but millions of people across the globe through their books, webinars, seminars and couching.
Getting around the right people go beyond meeting them face to face but through their books you can get all the inspirations you need to have a head start in life.
This year try and build on these 3 relationship with the right people and your life would change for the better
Enjoy your Sunday