There is a saying that the beginning of a thing doesn’t matter but how it ends is the main thing. Every relationship starts with energy and power to keep it live and going. But, the enthusiasm most often fizzles along the way and most people stop on the way and only few people are able to travel to the end to enjoy the relationship.
Our mindset plays the cause and effect game in our relationship because the thought you have determine the feelings you produce and this lead to the action you take and the result you get in the end. That means we need to do something about our thought, mind, and feelings we have in our relationship; whether marriage or other committed relationship.
Below are the 11 CONSCIOUS THOUGHTS YOU MUST DEVELOP IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP IN ORDER TO ENJOY RELATIONSHIP
1. THINK GOOD THOUGHT ABOUT THE RELATIONSHIP
Think good, and good things will follow. Think evil and evil will follow. You must know that you are what you think about all day long. What have you been thinking about your partner? Is your thought about him or her positive or negative. Do you wish something terrible happens to him or her as away to teach him or her a lesson? Do you believe you deserve a happy and loving relationship? Then think about this all day long and believe in this positive feelings will translate into the result that you have. If you think your partner will do you good and not harm you, you would experience its corresponding result.
2. YOU MUST KNOW THAT YOUR SUBCONSCIOUS MIND DOES NOT ARGUE WITH YOU
In the actual fact, your subconscious mind accepts what your conscious mind decrees. If you say you have not been lucky in any relationship[KMBS1] , you may be telling the true but don’t say it or be thinking about it in your current relationship. Instead choose a better thought. I met the right person in my life and I am enjoying great and happy relationship in my life. I accept it in my mind and your wish will be done.
Do you know many people sabotage their own relationship by the negative thoughts they have been harboring over the years? If you think your partner will not be successful in his new business so that he doesn’t get enough money to fool around other women that could be the result you would see.Business failure! Remember I said your subconscious mind does not argue with you about what is right or wrong it goes ahead to implement the order from the conscious mind
3. YOU HAVE THE POWER TO CHOSE WHAT YOU WANT
Choose what you desire in the relationship. If health is your desire, choose health, if wealth is your priority choose wealth and if it is happiness, go ahead and choose it. You can choose to be friendly or unfriendly with your partner in your relationship. Choose to be co-operative joyous, friendly, lovable, faithful, truthful, sincere, peaceful, gentle, caring, and the whole world would respond.
This is the best way to develop a wonderful personality in your relationship. This wonderful new personality will attract your partner to your ever than before.
4. YOUR CONSCIOUS MIND IS THE “WATCH MAN AT THE GATE”
The chief function of your conscious mind is to protect your subconscious mind from false impressions. Choose to believe that something positive can happen and is happening with your relationship now. The conflict is no more and your partner is now getting to understand how you feel better and better.
The money worries is no more and new financial doors are opening to you and your partner. Good things are happening and you are getting better and better with your partner in the relationship. The greatest power you have is your capacity to choose things you want to see happening in your relationship.Choose abundance, happiness and health. Don’t forget your subconscious mind is under your command. Use it to your advantage.
5. THE SUGGESTIONS AND STATEMENTS OF OTHERS HAVE NO POWER TO HURT YOU
The only power that can really hurt you is the movement of your own thought. You can choose to reject negative statement of others about your partner and your relationship and affirm what you want in the relationship and NOT what others are saying about your you and your partner. Don’t give them the permission to hurt you.
You have the power to choose how you will react. That’s whether to buy into their negative propaganda about you and your partner or simply to ignore them.
In fact, many people simply can’t take their mind off a negative remarks about them and spend their creative energy to think of something that would only subtract from them. Be focus in your relationship and don’t really pay attention to what people would say about you.
6. WATCH WHAT YOU SAY
This is where most people get themselves into trouble with their own words. You must know that you have to account for every idle word that comes out of your mouth. Never say things will remain the same, he or she will never change, I will LOSE my job, I can’t pay the bill, he or she can’t be faithful, I am never lucky, love is not fair to me etc.
Like I indicated earlier, your subconscious cannot take a joke. It brings all your idle words to pass in your life and that of your relationship. If you have anything positive to say, it should be word that would enhance your relationship and not to stagnate it. You can’t be expecting positive things in your relationship while all your pronouncements are negative.
7. YOUR MIND IS NOT EVIL
No living thing created by the divine is evil in anyway. It depends on how you use the powers of nature. Use your mind to change things you don’t like about your partner. For instance, if your partner is not the caring type, don’t focus on how terrible he is but focus on him or her as a caring partner bringing you flowers and taking you out as often as possible to holidays.
Use your mind to bless and inspire your partner. What you hold in your mind is eventually the result that you see in your life. What’s your mind towards your partner and the relationship” Is it positive or negative?If all your thought is negative in the relationship, don’t expect anything positive to happen, so is if your thought is positive you will see positive result in the relationship.
8. NEVER SAY I CAN’T OR IT’S NOT POSSIBLE
Overcome that fear by substituting the following, I can do all things through the power of my own subconscious mind. In the bible there is a scripture verse in Luke 1:37 that says “With God all things are possible” The scripture didn’t say certain things are possible and others are impossible.
God has given you the power to transform what you strongly desire in life so that your partner can benefit from it. Don’t say you can’t goon that expensive luxury vacation. It may not be possible from a look of things, but your mind see no limitation unless you give it the permission to impose limitation on you.
9. BEGIN TO THINK FROM THE STANDPOINT OF EXTERNAL TRUTHS
A lot of people begin to think from the standpoint of fear,ignorance and superstition. Don’t allow people in your neighborhood, families,friends and co-workers do the thinking for you. Choose your own thought and make your own decisions.
Don’t get swayed by the opinions people have about your relationship. They are not your God and has no control how your relationship would turn out. Don’t blame yourself because of what people have been saying about you and your partner. If they say he or she doesn’t deserve you, that’s their opinion but you have control of looking at thing from the divine point of truth.
10. YOU ARE THE CAPTAIN OF YOUR SOUL (SUBCONSCIOUS MIND) AND THE MASTER OF YOUR FATE
Do you really believe that you are in control of your destiny and nothing can change that unless you give permission for your soul to allow things to happen the way it occurs?
Remember I indicated earlier that you have the capacity to choose whatever you want in your life; good or bad. Choose life, choose health,choose love etc. Don’t limit yourself from failing to choose widely. The universe has no limitation to the amount of supply it can release.
If you want a house and a car, occupy your thought on these things and never consider them to be too much from the universe. Let your mind connect to the universe for the supply of your needs
11. WHATEVER YOUR SUBSCIOUS MIND ORDERS IS CARRY OUT
Whatever your conscious mind assumes and believes to be true, your subconscious mind will accept and bring to pass. Believe in good fortune, divine guidance, right action and all the blessings of life you can think of in life.
I point to you that your subconscious mind only receives input from the conscious mind and carry out its mandate without hesitation. So now that you are expose about the working power of your mind, it is over to you to make use of the opportunity to transform your relationship and your life to a life of abundance and prosperity.
We’ve been able to look at various ways we can use our conscious and subconscious mind to our benefit in our relationship. Take notice of the information to change what you don’t like by not focusing on them but rather focus on the things you like day and night about relationship.
Have a blessed mid-week! Let connect with each other on Friday.